Rewire Your Desire

The Daily Habits of a Porn-Free Man

with J.K Emezi




Seeking support takes a lot of courage and I am proud of you for making it this far in your journey. I’ve been in your shoes and I know how difficult this journey can be.

I’m here to help you.

I grew up in a conservative culture and religious family. As a result, I developed a lot of sexual shame during my childhood which led to more issues when I was a teenager. I medicated the feelings and emotions which I couldn’t handle with compulsive pornography use and masturbation.

I was exposed to pornography at the age of 8 and struggled to quit my behavior for over 15 years. I don’t want you to suffer for as long as I did. I want to share with you what I learned from these 15 years so that you can move from being “in recovery” to being “recovered.”

My approach has worked for thousands of men and here’s why

This journey is not just about breaking the habit of watching pornography...

White-knuckling through on willpower because that’s a losing strategy. 

You need to build new, sustainable habits so that you can create the life that you want.

Here is what you will learn in 7 lessons:

  1. Identifying Your Ideal Porn-Free Life
  2. Designing Your Recovery Plan
  3. Cleaning House
  4. Identifying Your Feelings
  5. Changing Your Self-Talk
  6. Training the Mind
  7. Schedule: Your Lifeline

When you let go of this old, compulsive habit, a lot of things are going to change.

You will make space for a deeper relationship with your inner self...

You will find more spiritual fulfillment in your life...

You will reclaim your true, deep, authentic and powerful sense of masculinity...

And you set yourself up for long-term happiness.

This is a safe space. I refuse to let you label yourself as a lifelong addict. You can break free from porn and create lasting habits that are aligned with the life you deserve.

Let me show you how. Sign up today.

J.K Emezi

Register Today for Rewire Your Desire



Who is this for?


This course is for you if you have tried to quit porn, and maybe gone a week or a month, or even 3 months porn-free... but always find yourself slipping back because you don’t have a proven method to anchor in your gains and build good habits to replace the old bad habit.

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No Willpower Needed

No Counting Days

No Shame Or Guilt-Based Recovery

No Judgment


You will learn how your brain works so you can

CHANGE your desire...instead of always fighting it.


Rewire Your Desire


Identifying Your Ideal Porn-Free Life


The first step to ending your porn habit for good is to know what you want instead. If you don’t envision the future you’re working towards, it’s much harder to avoid slips and relapses when you hit a bump in the road. In this module, we’ll visualize—in exquisite detail—the life you want to create, free of porn, masturbation, and out-of-control sexual behavior. You will answer questions like:

    • What will your love life look like?
    • Where will you be in your career?
    • How will you feel most of the day?

This module also includes an “Ideal Life After Recovery Worksheet” to clarify what exactly recovery means for you.


Designing Your Recovery Plan


Trying to end your out-of-control behavior without a recovery plan is like trying to build a house without a blueprint. You might eventually get there, but it will take longer and it won’t be as sturdy, so it could collapse under the stress of unforeseen circumstances. In this module, we’ll create your detailed, individual recovery plan, based on the experience of thousands of other men who have walked this path before you. A strong foundation will set you up for success. Having a concrete plan saves you time, your most valuable and irreplaceable asset.

You will learn:

  • The costs of doing it the hard way
  • The five aspects of wellness that any successful recovery plan must address
  • How to use my comprehensive Recovery Planner Worksheet to design your personalized plan

Cleaning House


For your recovery to last, it’s crucial to eliminate temptations that could lead you to relapse—specifically during the delicate period after you’ve quit the behavior, but before you’ve fully rewired your brain. In this module, we will review all the necessary precautions you can take to eliminate distraction and temptation. I’ve seen all the ways men can relapse, so I know how you can reduce the chances that will happen to you.

You will:

  • Set up your physical and virtual environment to protect the good habits you’re building
  • Learn the common pitfalls to recovery and how to avoid them in every moment 

Identifying Your Feelings


Now that you know what you’re working towards, how you plan to get there, and you’ve cleared away everything that might pull you off course, it’s time to understand your behavior and learn what leads you to slip. In Module 4, we’ll identify the emotions that lead you  back to porn again and again—where they come from and how to work with them..

We will cover:

  • How unidentified emotions fuel the cycle of addiction
  •  How managing emotions is a skill that many of us were not taught growing up
  • How to identify, recognize, manage, and finally master your emotions
  • How understanding your emotion will improve your intimacy, sex life, work life, social life, spiritual life, and possibly even your finances

Changing Your Self-Talk


Self-talk is the part of the addiction cycle that we have the most control over. Self-talk determines how we feel and how we react to everything that comes at us during our day. This module covers one of the most powerful methods of self-change that you can do by yourself, without the help of a therapist or coach.

You will learn:

  • How negative self-talk pulls us into an alternate reality, and how to get back to the real world
  •  The consequences of negative self talk, including self-doubt, anxiety, depression, lack of meaningful relationships, lack of inner peace, and urges to relapse
  • The benefits of positive self-talk, including self-reliance, self-esteem, confidence, and self-awareness

Training the Mind


Culture teaches us to suppress and distract ourselves from our strongest emotions. Do you want to spend the rest of your life “battling” your addiction, or do you want to learn to work with your brain to control your behavior more quickly and easily? This module explains the method of mental training known as mindfulness meditation, which will help you understand and master your own mind.

You will learn how to:

  • Escape numbness to experience joy and passion again
  • Experience the truth that you have never been broken, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with you
  • Change your most ingrained habits of thought and behavior
  • Allow sexual urges to come and go without reacting to them

Schedule: Your Lifelife


Struggling with addiction can feel like being thrown overboard at sea, struggling to keep your head above water and make your way back to the ship. Maintaining a daily schedule is a lifeline you can hold onto to pull yourself back up. This module will help you establish a schedule that will anchor in good habits and minimize your chances of slipping back into bad ones.

You will learn:

  • The three things you can control during your day
  • A common mistake men make when trying to establish good habits in their lives
  • How to use less willpower to get through each day without porn
  • One simple action you can take to improve your sleep, decrease your chances of relapse, and create more time for good habits

Plus, You'll Receive Bonus Materials
To Help Guide You Along Your Journey

How To Find An Accountability Partner

Discover why an accountability partner is important to your success and how to find a good one.

Establishing A Healthy Accountability Relationship

Learn about the common barriers to healthy accountability relationships.

Reclaiming Your Masculinity

Learn how porn actually erodes your foundation of manhood and some new strategies for self-development and personal growth.

Five Types Of Porn Addicts

Discover the five distinct ways porn addicts respond to a relapse and identify your type so that you can be better prepared to interrupt a relapse in the future.

How To Overcome Sexual Shame

Learn how culture and societal expectations can cause sexual shame and some powerful methods for alleviating it.


I'm J.K Emezi


J.K. Emezi is a Certified Addiction Coach (CAC), a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach (SPARC), and a recovered porn addict for just over 10 years. He believes it is WITHOUT A DOUBT possible to overcome your addiction to porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders while building a healthy, and fulfilling life.

J.K has experienced this journey firsthand and the men he works with have done so as well. For the past 9 years, J.K. has helped men regain control of their sexual lives, recover fully from porn addiction, overcome sexual and social anxiety, improve their relationships, and lead fulfilling lives.



“I really appreciate J.K’s straightforward, no-nonsense, “tell it like it is,” yet caring, light-hearted, humorous, and empathetic approach. The fact that J.K is a recovering porn addict himself lends tremendous credibility to his advice and instills deep confidence in me. My experience in his practice is a key ingredient in my successful recovery to date. I spend 2 hours each week for my coaching sessions and have never had a reason to regret it.”

Jason S

“Working with J.K as a coach has been one of the greatest choices that I have made in the past year. Prior to coaching, I had been trying to quit on my own for over three years with no progress. I had seen multiple therapists who either did not know about porn addiction or who did not believe in it. With recovery coaching, I have made significant progress that was not possible prior to working with J.K. One great advantage of working with JK is that he is an experiential expert with a deep understanding of this addiction. His knowledge and abilities are exceptional. In coaching, he has employed a holistic approach to my addiction that has helped me to improve in multiple areas of my life while recovering from my porn addiction. The tools that I have learned in recovery coaching have been incredibly useful, not only in my recovery, but also in my day to day life. I am no longer just going through the motions of abstaining from porn, I am actually recovering! “


“J.K helped me get my life on track. I was going down a dark path and truly had no idea what was going on in my life. J.K’s guidance and support turned things around for me. No I understand that I am not alone. As challenging as this path is, Elevated Recovery has made it easier.I highly recommend Elevated Recovery. All you have to do is meet J.K and you will see what I mean.”


Rewire Your Desire

Payment Plan


2 payments


Pay In Full


One-time payment





7 Modules to Guide You On:

  • Identifying Your Ideal Porn-Free Life
  • Designing Your Recovery Plan
  • Cleaning House
  • Identifying Your Feelings
  • Changing Your Self-Talk
  • Training The Mind
  • Schedule: The Lifeline

Special Bonuses To Learn:

  • How to Find and Use an Accountability Partner
  • Establishing a Healthy Accountability Relationship
  • Reclaiming Your Masculinity
  • Five Types of Porn Addicts
  • How to Overcome Sexual Shame

Frequently Asked Questions

Disclaimer Of Health Care Related Services: J.K Emezi/Contrarian Solutions, LLC Encourages Clients To Continue To Visit And To Be Treated By His/Her Healthcare Professionals. Understand That J.K Emezi Is Not Acting In The Capacity Of A Doctor, Licensed Therapist, Counselor, Psychologist, Or Other Licensed Or Registered Professional. Accordingly, You Understand That J.K Emezi Is Not Providing Health Care, Medical Or Mental Health Care, Or Therapy Services And Will Not Diagnose, Treat, Or Cure In Any Manner Whatsoever Any Disease, Condition Or Other Physical Or Mental Ailment Of The Human Mind And Body.